Friday, June 10, 2005

I just don't get it!

You know, I really do try to be patient with the ex, but he makes it damn near impossible. His stupidity is very annoying sometimes. He has his usual visitation on Tuesday's and Thursday's, from after school until 8:30 pm. One of my issues, is that for the past few weeks he must be looking at another country's calender, because he has his seasons all screwed up. Apparently, he is under the assumption that it is now summer because his visitation in the summer is until 9:30 pm, and that's when he has been bringing the children home. I'm sorry, but that isn't fair to them, while they are still in school. Stop and think about it, asshole!

My other rant is that yesterday he picks them up from school as usual on a Thursday, in they come at 9:20 at night...McDonald's bags in hand. That pissed me off. My kids went from lunch at school, until almost 9:30 to eat? That pissed me off more! They go ahead and eat their Mickey D's (now about 10 pm), I tell them they need to get ready for bed, (no shower's because it's just too late now). Fine, they get ready for bed. By this time, I'm really just irritated. Brian gets up to go to the bathroom (about 10:30), and comes back and asks why Corey's light is still on. I was actually half asleep on the couch (yes, I had made the mistake of laying down), and don't really pay too much attention to it, I'm assuming he probably fell asleep with it on...no big deal. A few minutes later, Brian's phone is going off, he's getting called into work. This sorta woke me up, beause I knew I had to change out of my clothes, brush teeth, let the dog out, etc. before going to bed. I go to the bathroom, notice Corey's light on...go in to turn it off...he's wide awake...DOING HIS HOMEWORK! I was like, "Corey, what are you doing your homework now for? Why didn't you do it earlier?" Here's the kicker....ready for this one???? Corey says, "I couldn't! We were at work with dad all night!" I was livid! I didn't ask any more questions, just told him to finish up as soon as he could so he could get to bed, and walked out. I wanted to scream!!! Now I can't say that I haven't been in a pinch before and had to bring my kids to work with me for a few hours before, but that is bullshit. At least make accomodations for the kids...think of them. When I bring them with me, they have their gameboy's to play, movies to watch, FOOD TO EAT, etc. Now mind you, he has them this whole weekend...why couldn't he call me and ask if I could just take them???? I would have said "sure"! Problem solved! I think his brain is fried from excessive marijuana usage!!!!

Well, that's my bitch! If nothing else, it totally confirms that I made a wonderful choice in leaving his joint smoking ass!

Grrr!

7 comments:

Peanutt said...

Wow, that is something else...just always going to be something! If he had to work, he could have said "hey, I can't take them today, cuz I have to work" whatever, its not like you wouldn't have agreed. Smoke some more freak!!! I'm sorry your so pissed! That sucks!
LYLAS

jlybn123 said...

Isn't it par? He just makes me ill! Think of your kids, moron!

TrueJerseyGirl said...

Be thankful he is out of your life! Too bad he is still in your kids' lives though...he seems like he doesn't exactly have the best judgement!

Dawn said...

I can't imagine how tough that must be. sorry!

Chief Slacker said...

And why couldn't he have them do their homework while they were with him? Stupid. Yes it was definitely a good decision.

Melissa said...

Your ex is a selfish jerk!

jlybn123 said...

Yes, a great decision indeed! Happy that I did what I did.